26 05 2015
Looking for friendship and we will take it from there.

When she walks away from you mad
[ Follow her ]

When she stares at your mouth
[ Kiss her ]

When she pushes you or hits you
[ Grab her and dont let go ]

When she start’s cussing at you
[ Kiss her and tell her you love her ]

When she’s quiet
[ Ask her whats wrong ]

When she ignores you
[ Give her your attention ]

When she pulls away
[ Pull her back ]

When you see her at her worst
[ Tell her she’s beautiful ]

When you see her starting to cry
[Just hold her and dont say a word ] * TIL SHE STOPS * THEN ASK HER WHATS WRONG*

When you see her walking
[ Sneak up and hug her waist from behind ]

When she’s scared
[ Protect her ]

When she lays her head on your shoulder
[ Tilt her head up and kiss her ]

When she steals your favorite hat
[ Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night]

When she teases you
[ Tease her back and make her laugh ]

When she doesnt answer for a long time
[ reassure her that everything is okay ]

When she looks at you with doubt
[ Back yourself up ]

When she says that she likes you
[ she really does more than you could understand ]

When she grabs your hands
[ Hold hers and play with her fingers ]

When she bumps into you
[ bump into her back and make her laugh ]

When she tells you a secret
[ keep it safe and untold ]

When she looks at you in your eyes
[ dont look away until she does ]

When she misses you
[ she’s hurting inside ]

When you break her heart
[ the pain never really goes away ]

When she says its over
[ she still wants you to be hers ]

– Stay on the phone with her even if shes not saying anything.

– When she’s mad hug her tight and don’t let go

– When she says she’s ok dont believe it, talk with her

– because 10 yrs later she’ll remember you

– Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her

– Call her before you sleep and after you wake up

– Treat her like she’s all that matters to you.

– Tease her and let her tease you back.

– Stay up all night with her when she’s sick.

– Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think its stupid.

– Give her the world.

– Let her wear your clothes.

– When she’s bored and sad, hang out with her.

– Let her know she’s important.

– Kiss her in the pouring rain.

– When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is;
“Who’s ass am I kicking babe?”





Making Time

26 05 2015

Can you agree with me on time being a precious thing that people take advantage of, pun intended?

We all have busy lives with goals, if you don’t…
You need to get your shit together.
Anyway, whether short term or long term, we have goals to be met. We have need goals and want goals. I feel like if I make time to accomplish a want goal before my need goal, I intentionally made time for that goal. 

Some people say “if it’s something you really want to do, you’ll make time to do it.” And I agree
with that, completely. So if I make time to do something that I want to do, something that I need to do isn’t getting done. 

For example:
If I take time out of my schedule to make plans for us to spend time with each other, for whatever reason and you waste my time, with bullshit… 

I can’t fuck with you anymore.





20 04 2015

I think it sucks when people are bitter about  not having mutual feelings for each other and you’re not able to get what you want from someone. Sometimes you just have to let go of the situation and face the facts. Keep in mind that just because two people want the same things, it doesn’t mean they want it from each other or that they can get it from each other. 





Abandon Ship

8 04 2015

A ship is a vessel designed to take you places, so if your friendship, companionship, partnership or relationship isn’t taking you anywhere… It’s time to abandon ship!





Trinidad And Tobago

7 04 2015

I had an incredible time visiting these places. 

I’m going to update this as often as I can. 







Meet me half way

4 04 2015

When I was younger I used to chase girls.
As an adult, I don’t chase women, at all. 

Meet me half way; we have to prove to each other that we are both worth the time. 

Bring some substance to the table; be an asset, not an accessory. Brains vs Beauty. 

Meet me half way; if you are just an attraction or a distraction you will be temporary and replaced when you are no longer needed.
If you can not be used you are useless.

This can be taken many ways, however:

People we encounter help us learn the things we want and don’t want from a potential encounter, with preferences & requirements.

I just want to build and establish a healthy relationship that’s worth our time, let’s get it right. I’m tired of maybe it will work out/maybe it won’t, I’m waiting on my one hitter quitter relationship. I’m ready already. 





Why are you single?

9 03 2015

“Because I’m tired of dealing w/ the bullshit!”

Isn’t this the dumbest question to ask someone that’s single? There’s never a right or wrong answer, any answer will suffice but people make it seem like there’s something wrong with being single. Why are you nosy?

Happily single is a thing, you don’t endure any drama, any stress and you save money 😁








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